Before moving in
Verify your flatmate's identity
Use Flatmate's verification system (NIN + selfie) to confirm they are who they say they are. This is non-negotiable.
Check references
Ask for references from past flatmates or landlords. A good person won't mind.
Visit the apartment in person
Never commit to a place you haven't seen. Scammers use fake listings with stolen photos.
Meet your flatmate face-to-face
Or at minimum, do a video call. Get a feel for who they are before committing.
Security measures for your apartment
Change or rekey locks when you move in — you don't know who has old keys.
Install a security chain or door viewer (peephole) if the apartment doesn't have one.
Don't share your location on social media when you're home alone.
Know your neighbours — they're your first line of help in an emergency.
Keep emergency numbers saved:
- Police: 112 (emergency) or 199
- Fire service: 01-7944929
- Your estate security number
Living safely with a flatmate
Discuss guest policies — who can visit, overnight guests, advance notice
Keep valuables secured — use a small safe or locked drawer for documents and expensive items
Don't leave appliances unattended — irons, gas cookers, and charging devices
Have a fire safety plan — know where exits are, keep a fire extinguisher, agree on what to do in emergencies
Trust your instincts — if something feels wrong with your living situation, act on it
If things go wrong
If you feel unsafe: Leave first, sort logistics later. Your safety is more important than rent money.
If property is stolen: File a police report immediately. Take photos of everything.
If there's a dispute: Use Flatmate's support or mediation before escalating to legal action.
The bottom line
Shared living is safe when you take precautions. Verify identities, set boundaries, and trust your gut. The vast majority of flatmate experiences are positive — especially when both people go in prepared.